Thursday, December 2, 2021

August, September, October, November, December 2021

Three months have passed since the last entry. There are many things we've been busy with. 

I. School

  • They both love it
  • Aviva's class is learning punctuation and they make sounds for the different punctuation marks. She says those sounds when she reads or when she writes. "Dear Aunt Shira whoop! How are you doing hmmmmm? I went to school this week whoop! but I had last week off clap. We're having a party in my class yes!" The sounds that the punctuation marks make are "whoop! hmmmm? clap! yes!"
II. Home
  •  Noah likes to hold my hand when we walk, and last week when the babysitter picked him up from school, he held her hand. I think that's very sweet.
  • Aviva has been calling Josh and I "aba" and "eema" which is Hebrew, but she puts it together with Spanish. "Hola, eema!"
  • Aviva is also doing a lot of writing, and she likes to spell things correctly so she's constantly asking how you spell various words. They've both been saying "what the...." a lot, and she asked how to spell it. I think they think that's the entire expression. Nothing comes after it.
  • When Aviva takes her shirt off, or when I pull it off for her over her head with her arms up, she always takes a big deep breath, as if she'll be underwater or won't have any air when her face is covered with the shirt.
  • Josh has added a wall and a loft to our room so now Aviva has her own bedroom. 
  • There's some word slip-ups that need to be documented (all by Aviva):
    • oatmeal = oatmule
    • gutters = udders
    • mentos = lentils
    • asparagus = exparagus
    • especially = expecially
    • hips/ love handles = handlebars
  • Nina and Judah visited, and also August and Tanner and we had fun with them
  • We hiked a little mountain so we could have pancakes at the top, something they do every once in a while. 
  • We took a music class with Melita of Octopretzel and the kids really liked singing and dancing around in the grass.
  • We went to our friends' farm and camped there, and went to Armstrong Woods park to see Josh's cousin Teake. Teake is a wooshu expert (kind of like kung fu) and he fought the kids simultaneously with all weilding sticks. 



West Point Inn, w/pancakes

                                                            Melita's music class

                                                                    Teake + sticks

                                                             Three Springs Farm pigs                         
                                                 Halloween: gargoyle + Snow White w/wings

                                             Kids raked leaves and played and jumped in them

                                                Aviva's room and our room, mid-construction


Teake (+ Aviva + stick)

Chanukkah dinner w/latkes and Jill/Dan/Theo/Brennan and Nana/Papa


August and Tanner




Noah w/weird photo settings on my phone

                                                               Grandma, Fukashima, leaves

                                                                            More leaves

Tuesday, August 3, 2021

Casi lista para regresar

We are living in the Jalatlaco neighborhood. It's pronounced barrio ha lot la ko. We like this area a lot; it's close to the center of everything, there are cobblestone streets and lots of brightly painted walls and murals on the walls, and there are interesting coffee shops and little shops. 

Something else that's nice about our barrio and Oaxaca in general: when you pass people on the street, they always greet you with "buenos dias," or "buen noche" or sometimes just a head nod. But there is an acknowledgement, just about every time.

Also, in Oaxaca and all around the area, women are often wearing traditional dress. In the villages it's mostly the dresses with lace collars and pleats and the apron over it. This is also the dress of the tamale saleswomen and the house cleaners. In the city (of Oaxaca) there are several different styles. And the hipster women wear them and the teenage girls wear them and they're in the windows of the shops around town. There's embroidery in 4 main styles and designs. I bought a couple last time and I get compliments on them when I wear them in Berkeley. I bought a couple more this time.  

 



This last picture is our house, once you open the gate

We had an adventure a couple weekends ago. We went to a weaving village called Santo Tomas Jaleiza and saw many women weaving. The kids mostly liked the exercise equipment nearby, but Josh and I liked to see the style of weaving that is done there. Then we went to a balneario, or a waterpark that was nearby. We've been going to many balnearios and the kids really like the slides and whatever play equipment they had there, which was also swings and seesaws. We met a woman and her two kids and had really interesting conversations about when she came to the US at age 16 from another nearby village. She later invited us to a birthday party in her town (she lives in San Diego now but visits every year at the village where she grew up, and she has a house there). (Getting home was fine, and I won't go into the details of us standing on the highway flagging down taxis, or about Aviva getting attacked by a cactus).

So the next day, we went to Santiago Apostal, near Ocotlan, where Maria's family member was having the birthday party. We took a colectivo to Ocotlan, and then a shared taxi the rest of the way, and Maria wanted to talk to our taxi driver to give exact directions to the house. But I have to say, we could tell when we were getting close because we could hear the 10 or 15 piece band (trumpets and cymbals and many horns). It was Maria's grandma's 92nd birthday party, and the way they do birthday parties is with this band (of people who live in Santiago Apostal) and people bring flowers, and the parties go from the afternoon until late at night. She told us this one was until 1:00 am. They fed us and did some game where the kids all scramble as a few people throw tons of candy out of baskets. We haven't finished what Noah and Aviva collected - not the beer-flavored lollipops or the corn-flavored hard candies with chili sauce or the violet gum. Some people were dressed up and some weren't. Someone was con tinually circling the area, offering beers and then mezcal shots. The music - songs were something like 30 minutes long, and there was dancing which was two lines facing each other, and every now and then everyone does a do-si-do and changes places. They invited us to do it too. So we did.

 
These girls are wearing
 traditional ribbons braided into their hair, like the older women do.


 



Maria's son Noe (pronounced No-eh) took us on a tour of their village and it was mostly dirt roads and a couple restaurants. We saw their house which was two rooms and a bathroom half-built, outside, and a separate area for showers. 

We left the party at 8:00, with difficulty, because we were asked to stay until 1. But it was getting late. So we got a truck-taxi-thing back to Ocotlan without too much trouble. But in Ocotlan (which is still 40 minutes or an hour from Oaxaca), we could not find a taxi. We hadn't anticipated how things are closed and taxis don't work on Sundays, and especially late at night (it was now about 9:00). We looked and hoped and asked and tried, but couldn't find a taxi. We thought we might have to spend the night in a hotel, which I'm sure would have been an interesting experience (especially since we didn't have things we needed like a contact lens case for me, and other stuff).

There was a colectivo driver who offered his services if we would pay $30. The price is usually probably $7. We bargained him down to $25 and he drove us to our door. That was $25 well spent. We got home around 11:00.

We found a babysitter who took the kids to a balneario, or waterpark, and to a village to work with clay. They love swimming and their twice-weekly swim class, and all the waterparks they've been to. Their swim class required a doctor's note with their blood type, and we tried. There were emails to their doctor and many trips to many pharmacies where we could supposedly easily get a doctor's note once we could print the emailed one we had.... In the end, Josh just wrote one, made up their blood type, forged the Kaiser letterhead, and paid 20 cents to print. It was accepted without a problem.

  

 


There is a church on the other side of town with a big plaza area filled with ice cream restaurants and vendors. Maybe 10 different places, with tables and chairs around the fountain area, and they are all for nieve, or ice cream (it's more or less ice cream). We call this place the Ice Cream Church though it's really called Basilica de la Soledad. There are probably 30 flavors offered at each place, including grasshopper, or chapulin. 

   Some of the flavors are broken rice, cheese, beet root, cucumber, and oat.



Aunt Joyce is visiting us now, for our last week here. She took us out to eat last night and we ate good things. We had a big bowl of guacamole to eat with tostada chips, and it was covered in mango pieces, carved radishes, and chapulin. We all ate it. 

 

Last post will be highlights of the trip. Until then, hasta luego....





Monday, July 19, 2021

Bonita y deliciosa

 We're about halfway through the trip. We're polka-dotted - especially Aviva's legs and Noah's back.

  


We're well-fed, thanks to the mercados and restaurantes. We have happy bodies, thanks to the kids' swim classes and judo classes,  their rollerblading, and the tons of walking we all do. Sometimes even walking down the sidewalk is exercise. Also we have a soccer ball and last night the boy next door came over to play. Fernando is 11. And there are always trees to climb....

  

          


Our minds are working - the kids are doing a camp this week and took Spanish classes earlier. They're also doing a weekly theater class.

 


Saturday is the day for the weekly market at Abastos. At Abastos, you can buy a radio, a half-ton of cheetos, a baby bunny, fried grasshoppers of many flavors, cleats, athletic socks, many different kinds of mangos, other fruits we could not name, or an electric drill. It takes up several city blocks and is pretty intense. Here is a picture of a woman selling fruit, while her baby sleeps:

  
Josh made a scavenger hunt for the kids and it included a lot of random things. They got almost all of them, so they earned extra dessert and screen time. Some things on the list were a big pot, a kitten, someone with ribbons braided into her hair, a pile of baskets, a piece of cheese bigger than my head, dragon fruit, a string of sausages, someone throwing something, a machete. 

The floors of so many buildings are really lovely, with single tiles that are positioned so they make intricate designs:

   

Kids are climbing a lot of trees


We ride the bus and also many taxis (the kids are each allowed to decide we'll take a taxi twice each week) and shared taxis which are called collectivos. We took one on Saturday that was a regular sedan taxi and there were 7 of us in the car. Aviva on my lap, Noah and a stranger next to me, a woman in the passenger seat where Josh had been, which meant Josh was squished into the non-seat space. Then she got out and another person took her place. 

We went on Saturday to a marketplace/farmers market/mercado in San Agustin Etla, which is about a half hour's drive from Oaxaca. When we got close, the taxi driver asked someone where to go, and was pointed to a trailhead. We had to walk the rest of the way on foot, on the narrow dirt trail. The trail led us to a little area with 10 or 15 little tables. They were selling food and also some art and pottery. There were also some picnic tables to eat at, covered with tablecloths. We got a tamale, chilequiles, some fancy cookies, and a few other things, which were all served on real dishes. When people were done with their food, they put them next to a little sink area where someone washed them. There was a trail on the end of the mercado that led to a waterfall. A 40 foot waterfall. And the trail went on awhile and we were hiking around this waterfall, through the woods. Eucalyptus trees all around, so the name of this mercado is Mercado los Eucalyptus. 

  

  

Breaking news: the camp is cancelled. The kids went today and liked it but the counselors have to cancel it because there weren't enough kids.... So - guess we're going to a waterpark tomorrow